Thank you for this. I see the care and intent. Ritual is a beautiful way to approach conversations, with care and kindness. It makes the exchange more sacred and tender, even if you honor your transman totally differently. The directions are a framework, easily adaptable. We had a lovely discussion after reading this and asking him about gifts he'd prefer was pretty deep and useful for me, and good for him to have a chance to speak and be heard. Conversations are so important, no matter how much you think you know your partner, checking in is good. For us it's been almost 9 years. Thank you for caring about your fellow transmen and creating this. It is the sweetest gift.
a touching and helpful document, beautifully written. I recommend it to anyone in a relationship with someone who has an expanded perspective of gender, not just transmasc folks, as I think it’s easily adapted to the individual recipient. Thank you for this lovely text!
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Thank you for this. I see the care and intent. Ritual is a beautiful way to approach conversations, with care and kindness. It makes the exchange more sacred and tender, even if you honor your transman totally differently. The directions are a framework, easily adaptable. We had a lovely discussion after reading this and asking him about gifts he'd prefer was pretty deep and useful for me, and good for him to have a chance to speak and be heard. Conversations are so important, no matter how much you think you know your partner, checking in is good. For us it's been almost 9 years. Thank you for caring about your fellow transmen and creating this. It is the sweetest gift.
Having been in Partners of Trans groups, this would be a nice welcome-to-the-family gift to share with partners.
I'm so touched you two decided to use this ritual together, and congrats on 9 years together 🎉
I'm so glad this game made room for useful conversation. Thank you for the love and care you show the trans man in your life 💖
a touching and helpful document, beautifully written. I recommend it to anyone in a relationship with someone who has an expanded perspective of gender, not just transmasc folks, as I think it’s easily adapted to the individual recipient. Thank you for this lovely text!
Thank you so much for saying so!
Yes, I can see this ritual easily being adapted to any gender. I would love to see that happen if folks feel so inclined!
A vital ritual practice of celebrating life and sharing love.
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